Julius and Betty Jo Courville, Jr.
Life at J. M. Morrow Nursing Home
It was a beautiful summer
day when Julius Courville Jr. decided to walk to the store in his hometown of Breaux
Bridge. His route took him by City Park
where a little bandstand stood. On this particular day, a pretty girl sat on
that bandstand. Julius learned that her
name was Betty Jo Young and the two began a courtship that resulted in a
marriage that has endured for over 65 years. Now, Julius and Betty sit
side-by-side and visit at J. Michael Morrow Nursing Home.
Julius learned that Betty
Jo Young came to Acadiana from Oklahoma when she was only 9 years old. Her father worked in the oil patch.
Julius also worked in the
oil industry; but, when he was 19 years old, he joined the Army and served his
country for 8 years. He says that he and Betty’s first home was in Clarksville,
Tennessee. They lived there while he was stationed at Fort Campbell, in
Kentucky.
The Courvilles returned to Acadiana and raised a family of four
children, two boys and two girls. Their
daughter Debbie resides in Abbeville.
Their youngest son Tim lives in New Bedford, Massachusetts. Their daughter Becky lives in Fort
Worth.
There was another son
Kenneth who was very kind. One year, for
Easter, he made a gift for every one of the residents at J. Michael Morrow
Nursing Home. He brought smiles to all
of their faces. Kenneth is deceased now but Betty doesn’t know that and Julius
is careful not to upset her. Kenneth was
only 60 when he passed away. He was an avid outdoorsman and enjoyed fishing,
crabbing, shooting his gun at the range and spending time with his
grandchildren. Kenneth faithfully loved visiting his mom in the nursing home
and being a sidekick to his dad. They are a close-knit family.
Five years ago, when Betty first became a resident at the nursing home, she loved to entertain all of the residents and guests. She had learned to play the piano as a child watching her mother. She says she became an even better piano player than her mom. She no longer plays but when Mavis Arnaud Frugé prompts her, Betty breaks out in song!
Alouette, gentille alouette, Alouette, je te plumerai.
Je te plumerai la tête. Et la tête! Alouette!
A-a-a-ah
Alouette, gentille alouette, Alouette, je te plumerai.
Je te plumerai le bec. Et le bec! Et la tête! Alouette!
A-a-a-ah
Alouette, gentille alouette, Alouette, je te plumerai ....
In April of 2019, Julius joined Betty at the nursing home. How does he like it? He says: "It is what you make of it." He continues: "When you wake up in the morning, put a smile on your face. If you can't, get back in bed and get up on the other side. If you want life to be bad, you can surely make it so. But, if you put a smile on your face, you can meet your challenges and find pleasure in life. It depends on YOU!"
Julius even sings in the nursing home choir and finds many activities to fill his hours. Remember: "It is what you make of it."
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